I changed, she changed we all changed.

Her change-

About a month ago Andrea asked me for the first time if she looked fat or pregnant. I know what you are thinking, there is no way he said fat, wrong. Every day since she has asked the same question. Awhile back I told her it was starting to lean towards pregnant and last week I told her it was official she looked pregnant. Last night we met her family in Washington, PA to celebrate her grandmothers birthday. As we were being seated the waitress looked at her and said congratulations, when are you due? I of course told the waitress, no she's just fat. The waitress wanted to die but the good work had already been done. Andrea was thrilled to have had her first confirmed stranger preggo sighting.

My change-

This morning I walked up to her and felt her stomach. I put both hands on her belly and said good morning to the girls. I did not even realise I was doing it. It just happened. Andrea said that I have changed. I asked her how and she said for the last 10 years or so if I walked by I was usually going in for a hooter grab now every time I get near her I grab the belly. I will make an effort to share my attention between the girls and "the girls" in the future. Is it weird if I combine the two?